Buddies

As I'm preparing for class and chatting with a few of my students, my office is suddenly bombarded with students! My voice was but a squeak compared to the excitement the kids were displaying. I struggled to listen to the rapid Thai coming from everywhere, but still had no idea what was going on!

"Baap nung ka," (One moment please) one girl finally said as she is passing around a small plastic bag with just a few pieces of folded paper left. Amp let me peek at what he draw from the bag. Of course! In Thai! But I could read a little and he cautioned me not to tell anyone!

I finally got the class of 32 out of my three-person office and regained my love for personal space. The class was starting to settle down when I walked in, but a few were still chatting about the papers.

"Teacher!" Although most of the class can read and speak English quite well, Mook is very confident in telling me what's going on.

She continues, "We now have buddies. Everyone picks a name, but cannot tell anyone! Top Secret! For two weeks, you must do something special or leave a small gift for your buddy, but can't let the buddy know it's you. Top Secret, Teacher!

"In two weeks, everyone brings a special gift to class and give it to their buddies in person!" She smiled proudly and continued her important discussion with her friends. I was left flabbergasted!

What a beautiful concept and a wonderful way to learn about unconditional love. What would happened if we all had buddies we gave a gift or kind word or action to everyday? Could we, as adults, be okay not receiving that important "thank you" whenever we do something? Equally, could we enjoy receiving kindness and thoughtfulness from others without feeling like we owe them something. I'm a great giver, but suck at receiving! Now I'm learning that every person, every living being is worthy to receive as well as give. So now I try to just appreciate the feelings that someone is thinking of me and accept the gift graciously.

Are you a giver or receiver or are you comfortable with both aspects? Lucky you! I still have a lot to learn and what a beautiful lesson to have brought forth from 32 amazing, talented and generous individuals. Thank you my teachers from Bangpakok!